Many
of you went to Bible schools and Christian universities. (I did, too, majoring in art.) I’m sure you love the Lord and you tried
to learn all you could about the Bible, doctrine, and maybe even missions and
practical Christianity. Then, you got to the field and found yourself
confronted with issues they never told you about. You might go to your husband or the senior missionary on your field for
advice. You open your Bible. Where to begin?
Overwhelming, isn’t it?
Years
ago, I could tell I had very few biblical answers.
I knew what the Christian world always said about some matters, but when you
live in a culture that has no moral compass, you start to wonder if they were
Christian traditions or Bible. I became motivated to start studying. (Better
late than never!) My first study was about women. What does the Bible have to
say to women—just women, not
men—being practical, for my own knowledge and understanding.
So,
I pulled out my husband’s trusty dusty (literally!) Strong’s Concordance and started
searching: woman, women, maid, damsel,
wife. I wrote down all the references and went to work weeding out verses I
didn’t need (that only referred to women, not instructing), and I compiled the verses I
wanted—any that spoke to women directly. I asked myself, what does God actually say? What can I
learn?
This
study was life changing! I probably didn’t use the
methods I would have if I had been a Bible or theology major. I didn’t even use
concordances until very late in my compilation. I simply asked God to teach me
what He wants women to know. It was eye opening. It was radical. It was
convicting. After all, I was constantly aware of the need to compare my own
behavior and beliefs to the Holy Word of God. It prepared me for
ministry.
Probably eighty percent of the women I’ve
personally counseled have been abused. Several have had lesbian relationships. Many have deep hurts that only God can heal, and every single woman on this
planet needs to know what God wants her to do. After all, Jesus said, If ye love me, keep my commandments
(John 14:15). How can we keep them if we
don’t know what they are? How can we lead girls and women to the truth if
we don’t have His commands firmly resolved in our own hearts, minds, and actions?
So,
we study the Word. To make it easy for you, if
you’re just starting out, I’m going to make a list here. Read these passages.
Ask God to open your understanding. Let the Word speak directly to your heart. Meditate
on what you’re reading and analyze the verses. Find out what God wants from
you. Then, you can pass these truths on to others.
To my surprise, there weren’t tons of key
verses for women. (Yes, I know the whole Bible is for women, but I’m talking
about verses specifically directed to women.) So, it’s not difficult to get a
very good grasp on the basics. God made it easy! (The asterisks are for the key verses for each subject.) Are you
ready?
For
Single Women and Girls
*1 Corinthians 7:7-8
*Ephesians 6:1-3
*Colossians 3:20
See also: Deuteronomy 7:3; Numbers 30:3-16
For
Married Women
*I Corinthians 7:2-5, 10-16, 34, 39
*Ephesians 5:22-24, 33
*Colossians 3:18
*Titus 2:3-5
*1 Peter 3:1-6
Read also: Genesis 2:24; 1 Corinthians
11:3; 1 Timothy 2:12; and Hebrews 13:4
A Woman’s
Role in the Church
*Mark 16:15
*1 Corinthians 14:34-35 with *1 Timothy
2:11-14
*Titus 2:3-5
Women’s
Dress
*Proverbs 31:22, 25
*Isaiah 47:2-3
*1 Corinthians 11:5-15
*1 Timothy 2:9-10
*1 Peter 3:3-5
How cool is this? There are basically three passages
for single women, five for married, four for women’s behavior in church, and
five about dress. So “simple,” yet, as you’ll see, so profound.
Of course, we could add to this list the verses
about purity, homosexuality, divorce and remarriage, plural marriages, widows,
and many other issues you’ll face on your field. Do you know what the Bible
says about these things? At some time in your ministry you’ll need to know.
Start now! Master the basics (above). Maybe
copy these simple outlines and keep them in your Bible so you know where to
look, if you find yourself suddenly counseling someone.
After—not
before—you really understand what the Bible says,
read books about domestic abuse, testimonies of former lesbians who’ve come to
Christ, and other counseling books that are written from a biblical
perspective. (Beware of “Christian” counseling books that aren’t biblical
counseling. There’s a lot of that out there!)
Become a life-long Bible student.
Learn.
Grow.
Enjoy
the Word!
God bless you!
Great article! Thanks so much for the timely motivation. I was just discussing this very topic with my husband last night. I just have 1 question for you: In Mark 16:15 Jesus is clearly speaking to His 11 disciples. I am a huge proponent of global missions: I am currently on the field! However, I'm just curious why you included the verse in a section of verses you said were directly to women as opposed to generally for everyone. I love and am blessed by your articles. Thank you for the time you put into each one.
ReplyDeleteHi Anonymous, You are so right. This isn't one of the passages that speaks directly to women--which prompted my first huge Bible study. I included it because it describes in a nutshell the mission statement of the church. As a woman, I find it helpful to keep a concise mission statement in mind, especially as I work with women and children. Am I fulfilling God's will in this activity? Or, is this an unnecessary extra or distraction to our main goal--discipling. Thank you for being a Berean woman!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for answering. What a great point! It can be tempting at times (especially in working with children week after week) to just "fill time" instead of making sure all the activities focus on some part of the mission.
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