"COME APART"
“My family is more important to me than the Tohono O’odham
people are”. That was a statement that
slipped out of my mouth as our family was returning home from Sunday morning
services recently. It had been a great
service and I felt like the Lord had been glorified in all our efforts that
day. But I was tired. Actually, mentally and physically exhausted. In
our long drive home that day I had been looking at the beautiful desert before
me and talking to God in my heart. It
was pure accident that what was in my head had slipped from my mind onto my
tongue before I could stop it. I know
many of you can relate when I say that from the time our family began
deputation to the point of this outburst, our family had been in a constant
work mode. Our days filled with
conducting church services, Bible Clubs, meetings and days with no appointments
filled with preparing for the ones that do.
And while I adore every O’odham person we minister to, I must admit I
was starting to feel jealous of the people God called us to. They were getting more of my family than I
was. Likewise, they were getting more of
me than my family was. It’s not a fun
place to be.
In Mark 6, Jesus sent out His disciples with many things to
accomplish for the kingdom of God. The
disciples did not slack in what Christ tasked them with but worked hard in all
they did. So much so that they didn’t
even take time to eat. They had seen
great things happen, but they had also seen a lot of heartache. In returning to Jesus to share what all they
had done, He saw that mentally and physically they were tired. But instead of telling them “get back out
there” or even giving them strength to carry on, Jesus declared a time to rest.
“And He said unto them, come ye yourselves
apart into a desert place, and rest a while: for there were many coming and
going, and they had no leisure so much as to eat.” Mark 6:31
My declaration that Sunday morning did startle my husband
and daughter but when I clarified my meaning, they agreed, and my husband
declared a time of rest! While we didn’t
have the finances to take an awesome vacation, we do have camping
equipment. A few weeks later we took a
few days to go camping and not do a lot but relax, enjoy each other, worship
God and create ways for taking better care of ourselves
God has been so kind to call and supply for each of us to
minister to the people we serve. He
doesn’t want us short term, He wants us for the long haul. It is our responsibility to not only take
care of our ministry equipment, the people we serve but also ourselves to see
this through. Here are a few ways we can
accomplish that:
Schedule weekly “Us” time. Whether it’s individually or as a family,
there needs to be at least one
day each week on the calendar that work is not
allowed. A time to recreate, reflect or
rest so that we
can renew ourselves for the next week of ministry
responsibilities.
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Maintain a healthy lifestyle. In our fast pace schedule, you may not be
eating healthy, not exercising
and not maintaining a healthy sleep
pattern. A healthy lifestyle will help
not only physically but
mentally. Bottom
line, if your body is not taken care of it will run down and you won’t be of
much
good to your ministry.
Maintain individual time with God. Days can get fast paced and fly by. Before you know it, the
day is over, and you
haven’t had any time with God. Jesus
shared the importance of spending time
at His feet in Luke 10:41 “But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen
that good part, which will
not be taken away from her.” It’s a “needed”
time. Working in a ministry and not having a healthy
relationship with
God will soon lead to a premature death of your ministry.
Let us not ever forget that God loves us as much as He loves
the people He called us to. He called us
to be servants not slaves. Our family’s
time off revived us and energized us to keep going. I pray today each of you will take time for
yourselves and your family so that God can work through you for many years to
come!
BY: Julie Ford
Tohono O'odham Nation
Thank you for this important reminder. It's easy to put your family and self care at the bottom of the "to-do" list.
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