Friday, September 21, 2018

A Day In The Life - Sunday in Iceland








What does Sunday look like in another country?



Sundays in other countries can look very different. Climate, culture, dress, accommodations, food, travel, local interest - these all influence how a Sunday might play out. (Sunday might even happen on Saturday in some cultures!) The important things are always the same. What are they? They are worshipping God, sharing His love with people, and teaching His word as effectively as possible. Sometimes those things look really different by ministry, though.


People who visit from the States often tell us that they are surprised by our Sundays. They expect us to have the typical Sunday school, worship service, lunch, nap, evening service, supper, etc. To be honest, we were never like that even when we lived in the States. Sundays were busy then, too. Just for fun, I thought that I would share with you what my typical Sunday looks like, well, what it is supposed to look like.



What did Sunday look like when you first started?


Before I tell you how it is now, I would like to mention how it was in the beginning. We met at home, in our apartment, with just our kids. Back then, it was just my husband, our two baby boys, and I. It was during those early days that the Lord helped me mature enough to appreciate worship meetings being about Jesus, not about being busy nor about seeming impressive to someone who might see me. In the spirit of honesty, the messages were (ahem) less than uplifting since my husband and I were just barely speaking Icelandic. I had no idea what he was trying to say. Sometimes we just tried to translate and memorize one Bible verse. Those were sweet times.

Let's fast forward nineteen years to present day. It is busy now, again, but we really try to keep what we do about loving, worshipping, and sharing Jesus.



What does Sunday look like now?


My mornings start a lot like yours, probably.  Get up early, do some laundry and household stuff. Make supper in the Crock Pot that our son William sacrificially bought for me one Christmas.  The kids fend for themselves for breakfast since they are older now.  Then, I get to have my quiet time with the Lord.  

Once I get to the church building, I start by making coffee for the morning service (about 5 pots), assemble soup to share for lunch, open church rooms and make sure heat is on, finalize any Sunday school prep for both languages, practice songs on piano one last time, then start greeting people as they arrive.

Our first service is an English Bible study attended by foreigners here whose mother tongue is neither Icelandic nor English. I am often in the nursery during this time. Then we have our English worship service. I stay long enough to play the piano then take the children out to teach.

As soon as the children go with their parents, we shift gears into Icelandic church.  The first job is to make a "pick-up list" of people that we need to get on our 18-passenger bus. Next comes cleaning up the soup and revamping the coffee for Icelandic church. I leave the kitchen in the capable hands of our daughter Rosa.  

While Patrick drives bus to get the first load of people, my next task is to get the welcome table set-up for the children who will be arriving. 

Let me just pause here to say that during Icelandic service, we split up into groups. We have some very faithful helpers including our own teenagers and some young adults who have been saved in our ministry. We absolutely could not run this afternoon Icelandic ministry without them.

After greeting the second bus load, we go to a general assembly for singing and announcements. Then we split into groups. To keep this part simple, we have five groups consisting of adults, 6-8 grades, 3-5 grades, 1-2 grades, and pre-school/nursery. The groups rotate but all have a Bible lesson, a game time, a chance to "buy" things in our little motivational store with tickets they have earned, and a have snack. 

As the last kids eat their snacks, I make the "take-home" list which is never the same as the pick up list unfortunately. Patrick takes that first load home while William and I play games with the others.  As Patrick takes the second load home, I drive home those who live a little farther out.

We meet back at the church to tidy up and head home where we that supper waiting in the crock pot.



What happened last Sunday?



We had a "man down" Sunday this past week. Actually, it was a three-man down Sunday. Three people were sick who are integral to the operating of our Icelandic Sunday school. It went something like this.

Because one of the teachers got sick just after church started, we had to make a decision on the fly. These decisions generally never end well. Since it was the pre-school/nursery teacher that got sick at the last minute, everybody else shifted down to the grade below where they normally teach to combine the oldest children's group with the adults. Frankly, this threw everything into a tailspin. No one knew what they were supposed to teach.

We adjusted, though, like good soldiers. I got the little guys. Just as I was establishing authority with my little wigglers, the fire alarm went off. Of course. We filed all of the children out into the blessedly mild autumn weather. Mercifully, William had his (well, my) class following him in a single file line doing airplanes and hopping bunnies while making his way to the property border. We joined in. Soon the adults and older children wandered out. The men checked the building. Should I have found it frustrating that there was actually no fire? Probably not.

We filed back into the building. It was no small effort to get everyone settled back down. When we were finally into the story of Moses at the parting of the Red Sea, the Securitas guy showed up to inspect the building because of the fire alarm. Though I am thankful for his attention to detail by inspecting every single room, my lesson was over. We left the Red Sea walls filled with hungry sharks and curious whales all hovering around Moses and the Isrealites. Bjartmey, the teacher, can finish the story next week.

Of course, we had already announced that it was ice cream Sunday, no pun intended. Thankfully, the ice cream that we had was the kind on a stick instead of the kind that has to be scooped. The kids' sitting and eating their ice cream on a stick was the last bit of calm that I can remember.

Our regular order of rotation was completely out of spin. Every single class ended up at the little store at the same time. My little wigglers descended to chaotic play in hallway. Trying to reign in that chaos while also answering the volley of questions from the adults who were trying to step up and help and while trying to make that take home list, did not go well. But then it got worse. We waded semi-single file into the complete anarchy of the main auditorium. Yes, it looked liked one of those school cafeteria food-fight scenes in a movie.

I winged a take home list, not actually filling the van nor having the stops in the right order. The bus left. The rest of the sticky, hyper, little guys made their way to the play room. William ran a game while I made a better organized second list.


After getting the big blobs of stickiness off of the church floor, we may have looked a little haggard going home last Sunday.  


Supper was delicious.

Sunday on the mission field can look very different or maybe not so very different. Either way, I love it.

Patrick and Vicki Weimer in Iceland since 1999

















Thursday, September 20, 2018

Change

I was asked to speak at a women's banquet last month, right after our return home from our first year abroad: language school.  I really struggled with what to share.  But, the more I thought about how our life had changed in just three short years and God has used those changes changed me, I knew exactly what I needed to share. For 37 years, my life was very constant and predictable.  Then, God changed everything.  And by changing everything, He changed me. 

God changed my comfort zone, changing my attitude from Fear to Faith.
Growing up in a town where I'd attended the same school from kindergarten to graduation, the same college for both my Bachelor's degree and Master's, the same church for 30 years, and lived in the same neighborhood for 17 years gave me a great sense of security.  Then, God plopped me in San Jose, Costa Rica--a city of two million people.  Still not that big compared to other places, but pretty big to me.  I had traveled to other countries--Portugal, Spain, Russia, Mexico, Canada, and Jamaica--but I had never lived anywhere else.  It was LOUD, busy, crime-ridden, etc.--everything "big city life" brings.  I locked myself up in the safety of my fortress (my house with bars on pretty much every entry available).  I walked to school and walked home.  And, that was it.  If we walked somewhere as a family, I was a basket case by the time we got home. But, after a week, I knew this was not how I should--or wanted--to live my life.  God brought me CR to live my life for Him, not stay shut away from everyone.  I had a choice to make: allow fear to paralyze me or faith to propel me.  Thankfully, through the leading and guiding of the Holy Spirit, I chose the latter; and God opened up doors to propel me forward in serving Him.  By my third trimester, He tested me again in this area--but not physically.  He tested me spiritually.  I was asked to help lead a ladies' Bible study in Spanish.  What??!!  I hadn't even finished language school yet!  But, I knew God was with me and He had already brought me through fear once before.  I had the privilege to lead several sessions with these women and they were so encouraging as I probably butchered their language while trying to share His Word with them.  PS. This one will always be a test for me...

God changed my vocation, changing my attitude from Disappointment to Desire.
I had been a high school teacher since graduating college and an instructor at the university from where I graduated for 8 years when my husband dropped the bombshell that God was calling our family into full-time missions abroad.  I was excited about moving to Mexico and being part of missions there.  But, I was not in any way, shape, or form excited about no longer teaching and advising college students and now teaching my own children.  I loved classroom teaching.  I was not a "homeschool mom"  nor did I have any desire to be.  Because of the circumstances and knowing it was the direction God was leading our family, I actually got pretty excited about it.  We home-schooled one year.  Although it wasn't my favorite, we survived and enjoyed most of it.  Last year, they attended the international school on our campus; this year, we've started it up again.  And, we LOVE it!  I have loved everything about it.  God has changed my attitude from disappointment over leaving what I loved to desire by loving what I do.

God changed my community, changing my attitude from apathy to adoration.
Ministry can be messy, hard, discouraging, and frustrating.  You see the worst in people many times.  And, honestly, I was "jaded" regarding the Church, the body of Christ.  I was tired of politics within the church, gossiping, tearing one another down, causing dissension among the church members, an "in-ward" focus, etc.  No one church is immune to any of this; nor is any one church member (me included!!)  But, when I became a part of a community of believers of all different walks of life, convictions, ideas, personalities, family dynamics, etc who all were united by one purpose, I saw the Body of Christ as it should be.  I've written an entire blog on this before, but I saw the believers lay down the rights to their opinions to fulfill the call God has given each of us.  God changed my heart of apathy toward the Church to adoration of the Church.  God loves His church; He adores it; and He created it to spread His love to the world.  To our neighbors.  To every nation.  And, I'm thankful to be a part of it.

I could share so many more changes that God has put in our lives over the past three years and how those changes have changed me, but I just wanted to share a few to hopefully encourage any of you going through changes: no matter how great or how small, God will carry you through.  We are now back in the states for a few weeks preparing and packing to head to Mexico to begin serving there. There will be more change.  There will be new places, people, language barriers, problems with crime...life will be full of changes.  As I'm preparing, I am already finding myself anxious sometimes about those changes.  But, I'm thankful for the people God brings my way to remind me of His Words.  When change brings anxiety, I can remember:

"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." ~~Philippians 4:6-7

I can allow the changes God is going to continue to bring my way to make me anxious or make me able: able to keep my mind focused on Him; able to give Him thanks for these changes and how He will use them to mold me more and more into His likeness; able to bring peace instead of worry and spiritual protection instead of temptation.

Want to know what happened to that timid missionary woman who showed up in Costa Rica and locked herself in her house scared to go anywhere??? ....she ended up taking a bus downtown by herself several times, and calling CR her home.  Change is inevitable.  God is able.  I praise Him that He is able to continually change me.

Tuesday, September 18, 2018

Gluten Free, Black Bean Brownies - With Video

I’m going to be honest with you all. 
Just about every time I see a recipe that says “Gluten Free” I scroll or flip right past it. I mean, why would I waste my time making something without gluten, that’s probably gonna taste funky, and isn’t necessary for my diet? Besides, it’s easiest for me to cook with flour rather than to find ways around using flour, or using flour mixes or making my own mix. 
When a friend texted me this recipe, and told me it was really good, I really thought they were crazy! 
I mean, does Black Bean Brownies even sound appetizing? I didn’t think so. But now....I think differently. 
I hope you give these brownies a shot. And are happy with the end product! 

What You’ll Need

1 (15 oz) (1 2/3 cups)  can drained, rinsed, black beans 
(If you don’t have canned black beans, you can always use cooked black beans. Just make sure they have had time to cool off before you use them in this recipe) 
1/2 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 cup sugar 
1/4 cup cocoa powder
3 eggs 
3 tablespoons coconut oil 
(Or any other oil you would prefer) 
1/2 teaspoon salt 
1 teaspoon vanilla 
1 teaspoon instant coffee 

Optional 
1/4 cup chopped walnuts 
1/2 cup chocolate chips 
1 cup marshmallows
1/2 cup shredded coconut 

Place ingredients in a mixer/blender/food processor, and blend till smooth. 
Poor into a greased 8x8 baking pan. 
Sprinkle on optional ingredients if desired. 
Bake in a 350 degree oven for 35-40 minutes. 
Cool or serve warm! 

Most gluten free recipes seem to be complicated (to me) but I was pretty happy with how easy this recipe was to follow! I tweaked the recipe a bit, I had to taste a couple batches to get the result I was looking for. 
I hope you appreciate all the taste testing this recipe took! (Life is tough) 

I would really like to know what you think of this recipe! Feel free to comment, and let me know how this recipe worked for you. 
I would also love to hear if you tried anything different with this recipe. Maybe changing out blackbeans for red beans, or some other sort of cooked bean? 



Amber Wells Papua New Guinea  ðŸ‡µðŸ‡¬

Sunday, September 16, 2018

Tried Faith


God has made promises to Abram.  
Abram wants an assurance of these promises.
God gives Abram instructions for a sacrifice.
Abram follows the instructions.
Nothing. Happens. 
(Genesis 15)

But Abram doesn’t abandon his sacrifice.  He trusts God that what He has commanded is for a purpose.  His faith is strong enough to wait.  His faith is strong enough to keep the birds  from hauling his sacrifice away.

God has given promises and assurances to those of us who are missionaries.

Matthew 28:18-20 “All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.”

Those of us who are missionaries have answered this call, have obeyed these commands, and are sometimes left metaphorically sitting beside our sacrifices, wondering why nothing is happening.  I wonder if Abram ever felt that God was mocking him.  If so, he doesn’t let on.  He guards his sacrifice and keeps the birds from consuming it.  I concur that Abram knew that this sacrifice had value. Primarily, it had value in the eyes of God.  Because Abram’s faith was firmly placed in God, his values were aligned with God’s values. 

How do you view the sacrifice you have made to be on the mission field?  It isn’t the exact same sacrifice asked from each us.  There are unique facets of each and every one of our individual sacrifices.  The comfort comes in knowing that God has a complete understanding of our situation and has requested only what is necessary, possible, and reasonable from each of us.  We honor God, when by faith, we willingly make whatever sacrifice He has requested.

I Corinthians 7:2 “Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.”

Now, for many of us, comes the waiting.  The watching. This is not a passive duty any more than the work of a sentry at his post.  At the end of his tour, he has nothing to show for it, other than that he stayed awake and alert to any possible threats.  We must stay alert and drive off the fowls of doubt, fear, frustration, worry, anger, impatience, and the rest of the vultures that fly in that flock.

Let’s go back to Abram. He did get to see the burning lamp of God accept his sacrifice.  Sometimes we hear that if your faith hasn’t led you to a place that makes you afraid, you aren’t walking by faith.  I’ve noticed in my life that my fear has been more a result of my unbelief – not my faith. Abram needed faith to overcome his impatience, the monotony of waiting and watching, the irritation of detractors, and the nagging doubts that must have been plaguing his mind.  

Galatians 6:9 “And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.”

We are promised a harvest in due season.  The definition of due season must by faith be left in the hands of God.  Ultimately, we will see the result of our faith in heaven. For some men of God, the fire of heaven is sent down in immediate splendor as in the experience of Elijah.  For others, there is an unspecified period of waiting between the time of sacrifice and the time that God sends His fire of acceptance.  Do we have the faith to wait?  Don’t try to force it.  Don’t metaphorically douse the pile with gasoline and strike a match.  

So to you, fellow missionary: what does your sacrifice look like right now?  Is your altar broken down?  Is your sacrifice what God requires? Do you value this sacrifice? Are you guarding it well?

Genesis 15:6 “And he (Abram) believed in the LORD; and he counted it to him for righteousness.”

I Peter 1:7 “That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ:”


Friday, September 14, 2018

Her Story Quotes by Shari - {Girl, Change Your Clothes}



Let me start by saying this is not an article or devotion about dress standards. Although studying the Scriptures and praying about how God would want you to be dressed on the outside is important, I believe it is more important to be dressed appropriately on the inside. Whether we like it or not, how we dress outwardly and inwardly reflects on who we are and Whose we are. The Bible says that we are daughters of the King and therefore princesses. There is an expectation of how a princess should dress. If you are unaware of this just read any of the hundreds of articles that report on Kate Middleton or Meghan Markle's wardrobes daily. I’m sure, though, if we went to “Princess” School we would be told that just as important as the outward adorning of modest attire for a king’s daughter is the importance of the inward adorning of a princess’ heart.

Psalm 45:13a, “The king's daughter is all glorious within…”

The Bible has much to say about how a daughter of the King or a woman of God should be dressed on the inside. Actually, there is too much to be covered in a single article, but we will focus on three things the Lord gives us to “wear” and two things that we are to “put on” ourselves.

1. Isaiah 61:10a, "I will greatly rejoice in the Lord. My soul shall be joyful in my God. For he hath clothed me with the garments of salvation. . .”

When we realize our sinful state and the eternal consequences that go with it, and we decide to trust Jesus as our Savior, God gives us the garment of salvation. This is pictured in the Old Testament when Adam and Eve tried to make coverings for themselves. They realized they had sinned, knew they needed to cover up their sin, and so they sewed fig leaves together. Many people try to find ways to “cover up their sin.” They go to church, give money to the poor, show kindness to their neighbors, etc., but these acts do not cover up our sin in God’s eyes. God took the life of an animal and covered Adam and Eve’s nakedness with garments made from its skin. It was a picture of the time when one day Jesus would give His life and His blood to cover our sins. Ephesians 1:7, “In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace;” God has a garment of salvation for you. Are you wearing it? 

2. Isaiah 61:10b, “… he hath covered me with the robe of righteousness. . .”

When we accept Jesus as our Savior, God gives us not only a garment of salvation, but also a robe of righteousness. The word “righteousness” means perfect, just, or without sin or blame. It is a covering we can use for our daily life. That means that when I wear this robe of righteousness, God sees Jesus’ righteousness and not my sin. Before Him I stand perfect or just. Praise the Lord, because I am anything but perfect or just.

I like to think of it as a “super” suit. It is something that is there, but sometimes I forget about it. When I remember I am wearing a garment of righteousness, I can live a holy life unbounded by sin. I don’t have to let my old nature get the better of me. I can have victory over my besetting sin. I believe that once we put our trust in God and He gives us the garment of salvation, it can never be taken away from us nor can we ever take it off. No matter what, our eternal home in Heaven is secure.  But we chose daily whether to remember that God has given us a robe of righteousness. When you look in the mirror what do you see? The devil wants you to see your past, your failings, your faults, but God sees Christ’s righteousness. Some days we get caught up in the cares of this world and we forget that we have the power through Christ to live right, but we have to be pro-active about it. Job 29:14a, “I put on righteousness, and it clothed me…” 1 Corinthians 15:34, “Awake to righteousness, and sin not…” God has given you a robe of righteousness. Are you using it?

3. Isaiah 61:3, “…to give unto them…the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness…”

The third garment the Lord gives us to wear is the garment of praise. This garment is free for us to have, but God can’t…or should I say…chooses not to, make us wear it if we don’t want to. He gives us this garment of praise to replace our spirit of heaviness. There are many women today. . .Christian women. . .who refuse to wear their garment of praise. They’re discontent. They’re discouraged. They’re depressed. You ask them how they are doing and they sigh, or they tell you their latest problem, or they tell you about the tragedy they are sure is just around the corner. They have misplaced their garment of praise and are wearing a spirit of heaviness. God knows sometimes our hearts are heavy. He knows that we have trials and struggles that we go through, but He gives us the garment of praise to replace the spirit of heaviness.

When we get saved, God wants us to wear our new clothing not our old rags. You know when you have an article of clothing that becomes so old you just can’t wear it anymore? I have a pair of black knee socks that I just love to wear in the winter. I’ve sewn the holes closed so many times, but I finally had to throw them away when I realized the thread worn away was more than the thread that was left to sew together. Sometimes it is hard for us to discard old clothing because it is comfortable. The same is true for the spirit of heaviness. Some of us have worn the garment of heaviness so long that it is comfortable.

One time I was sitting in a service and the pastor preached a great sermon on being thankful for everything. Many people went to the altar to make decisions, but immediately after the service finished, a certain lady walked up to me and started complaining about a situation. She obviously wasn’t listening to the sermon. She is a complainer. She has been a complainer for as long as I have known her. Her complaining is comfortable to her. She is a Christian, and God has given her the garment of praise, but on that day, like many other days, she did not choose to wear it. This lady is a princess. She is a daughter of the King. She has an eternal home in Heaven, but today as she walks on this earth, she is wearing the spirit of heaviness and has forgotten that her Father has bought her a new dress and would like her to wear it.

Complaining is not the only attribute of a spirit of heaviness. Some other ones would be:

·        a lady that argues all the time
·        a lady that finds some fault, large or small, with every person they come in contact with
·        a lady that never has a kind word to say
·        a lady with a perpetual sad countenance
·        a lady that is self absorbed and can’t see the needs of others

God gives us the garment of praise, and He commands us to use it. Philippians 4:4, “Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice.” Do you choose to wear your garment of praise each morning or are you wearing your old rags? If you don’t know, ask yourself this question the next time you are tempted to say something negative or critical: “Am I wearing my garment of praise today?”

God gave us the garment of salvation for our past and our future,
and He gave us a robe of righteousness and a garment of praise for our present.

Now let’s talk about the things that the Bible says that we should “put on” ourselves. There are many. . . 

Ephesians 4:24, “. . .put on the new man. . ." 
Romans 13:12, “. . .put on the armour of light.”
Galatians 3:27, “. . .put on Christ.”
Ephesians 6:11, “Put on the whole armour of God…”
Colossians 3:12, “Put on …mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;”

. . .but we will focus on just two.

4. Proverbs 31:25, “Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.”

Strength and Honor are so closely related that it is hard to separate them. Combined they would be closely related to the word “nobility.” You may not be from noble birth, but you were born into nobility when you were born again. Romans 8:16,17

STRENGTH – Proverbs 31:17 talks about the woman who strengthens her arms and girds her loins. This is talking about physical strength, but verse 25 is talking about an inward strength that shows on the outside. 

She wears her strength visibly. It is an outward sign of an inward peace.

Much like the fact that physical strength cannot be bought in a pill, faked, or come by quickly, so it is true that inner strength cannot be bought, faked, or come by quickly. It is the result of the repetition of a particular action. It takes a steady regime of eating right and working out to build physical strength. It is much the same for inner strength.

HONOUR - This honor is not the kind that is sought out, but is the kind that comes to a lady as a result of her strength in the Lord. It is not expected, nor is it accepted in pride, but is a by-product of a life lived that is clothed in a garment of salvation, a robe of righteousness, and a garment of praise.

How do we get strength and honor?

Psalms 96:6b “Honour and majesty are before him: strength and beauty are in his sanctuary.”

1 Chronicles 16:27b “Glory and honour are in his presence; strength and gladness are in his place.”

Strength and honor can be obtained by being in the presence of the Lord. You have to be near the Lord to experience this strength. If you never go to the gym, or exercise your muscles, they won’t grow strong. Likewise, if we spend our life away from the presence of the Lord, we will never have this kind of strength or honor.

The end of Proverbs 31:25 says “…and she shall rejoice in time to come.” When you have inner strength, you have a confidence in both the present and the future. It is the unworried peace of someone who trusts the Lord for their past, present, and future. A princess that is clothed in salvation, righteousness, praise, strength, and honor doesn’t worry about tomorrow. She actually rejoices in her future with Christ.

If we're going to be spiritually dressed like a princess, it's going to take time and effort and attention to detail. How much time do we spend each morning “dressing” ourselves for the day ahead? How much thought have we put into it? Do you just “jump out of bed,” “grab any old thing to wear,” and “say, ‘That’ll do’.” 

What causes God to look at a woman and say, “I am pleased”? Do you think it is the way you wear your hair or the makeup you put on your face? Those are important things and not to be left undone. . .just look at how God adorned the earth with color and beauty. . .but these things alone will not cause God to utter those precious words. God is pleased when He finds a woman who is adorned on the outside and the inside in such a way that represents the wonderful position He has so graciously given them on the day He saved them.

Are you a well-dressed Christian woman? Do you act like the princess that you are?
Are you wearing the garments of salvation, righteousness, praise, strength, and honor?

If not, Girl, change your clothes.