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Monday, December 9, 2019

Man of Sorrows and Prince of Peace



“For unto us a child is born: unto us a son is given, 
and the government shall be upon his shoulder, 
and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, 
The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace.” 
Isaiah 9:6


Christmas isn’t a joyous, festive time for everyone. For the woman who lost her husband in a tragic accident this year, it is lonely. To the single mother who is struggling financially, it is an added expense that adds to her anxiety. To the lady laying in a hospital bed it is disappointing. To the retail worker it is tiring. To the “Martha” who is cumbered about much serving, it is stressful. To the missionary wife whose children are across the seas, it is a painful sacrifice. To the family that has been divided by conflict, it is tense. To the sinner enslaved to her sin, it is meaningless. There are troubled hearts every which way we turn. Some will “put on a brave face,” but behind the forced smile and the routine adherence to all the traditional Christmas rituals are still hearts plagued with grief, loneliness, anxiety, stress and hopelessness. These are what the world has to offer us, and into such a world God the Father sent His Son. One of the names He gave Him is The Prince of Peace. What a precious name, and what a precious gift to a world full of troubled souls!

One of the underlying themes of the Gospels is the peace that Jesus Christ has to offer. On 15 different occasions, Jesus tells one or more people, “Let not your hearts be troubled,” “Be not afraid,” “Peace be unto you,” or “Go in peace.” Clearly, The Prince of Peace wants all of His subjects to have peace also. Indeed, when the heavenly host announced Jesus’ birth to the shepherds, they praised God, saying, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.” (Luke 2:14) That mankind should know peace even in the face of the trials and tribulations we experience, was, and is, the express desire of both God the Father and God the Son. 

In John 14, there seems to be an emphasis on this theme of peace, seen by the fact that the chapter begins and ends with the same exhortation: “Let not your heart be troubled.” (vs. 1 and 27) Between verses 1 and 27, the Prince of Peace gives us many reasons for why we ought to have peace in our hearts:

1) He’s preparing a place for us with Him in heaven. (vs. 2)

2) He’s coming again to receive us unto Himself. (vs.3)

3) We know where He is, and we know how to get there. (vs.4)

4) He promises to answer our prayers. (vs.14)

5) We have the Comforter, the Holy Spirit, with us forever. He comes alongside us and we are never alone. (vs.16)

6) We have eternal life. (vs.19)

7) If we love and obey Him, we have the assurance of both the Father’s and the Son’s love—not merely the universal love that God has for all mankind, but that special love that He has for a beloved child. (vs.21)

8) If we love and obey Him, we have His promise that He will manifest (Strong’s definition: exhibit in person; disclose by words; to appear; declare plainly; inform) Himself to us. (vs.21)

9) We have the promise that the Holy Spirit will teach and remind us of everything we need to know. (vs.26)

10) Christ’s peace has been bequeathed to us—it is already ours to be had. “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” (vs.27)


Then, in later chapters, our Lord gives us some more reasons:

11) Christ has overcome the world with all its trials and temptations: “These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)

12) We have been sent into the world by Christ, just as He was sent by the Father. (John 20:21)



To be troubled in heart is a frequent and even normal occurrence for us because we live in a world riddled with sin, sorrow, trials and problems that cause us anxiety and sadness. Even the Lord Jesus, The Prince of Peace, was acquainted with grief and was called the Man of Sorrows (Is.53:3). Three times in the Gospel of John, Jesus is said to have been troubled:

1) In John 11:33 we read “When Jesus therefore saw [Mary] weeping, and the Jews also weeping which came with her, he groaned in the spirit, and was troubled.”

2) In John 12:27, Jesus Himself said, “Now is my soul troubled,” when He contemplated His impending crucifixion.

3) In John 13:21 Jesus is said to have been “troubled in spirit,” about Judas’ imminent betrayal. 

Perhaps it seems unfair that Jesus should then command us to “Let not [our] heart be troubled,” or to “Be not afraid,” if even He, the Son of God and Prince of Peace couldn’t avoid being troubled in heart. But we must keep this mind: the Lord Jesus was troubled in soul and spirit so that we need not be troubled. The prince of Peace allowedHimself to become a Man of Sorrows so that we need not be always downcast. It is inevitable that we will have moments of grief and anxiety in our lives, but we need not carry the weight of these emotions long-term. Because He was acquainted with grief, we now have a great High Priest who is “touched with the feeling of our infirmities,” who was “in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin” to whom we can “come boldly…that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.” (Heb.4:15-16)

Dear reader, if you are dreading the Christmas season because your heart is troubled or afraid, I exhort you to go to the throne of grace to obtain mercy and find help. The One who sits on this throne of grace is that Man of Sorrows who understands exactly what you’re going through and how you’re feeling, and He is that Prince of Peace who has already bequeathed His peace to His children. His peace is the peace that “passeth all understanding”that can “keep your heart and mind through Christ Jesus.” (Php.4:7) He gives His peace “not as the world giveth.” The world’s peace is fleeting and changes with circumstances, but His peace is permanent and secure. The world’s peace is a false peace, based on compromise, but His peace is based on the truth of God’s Word. The world’s peace ignores the root of the problem, but Christ’s peace is the result of Him having healed us from the root of the problem—sin.

God’s Christmas gift to this troubled world was His only begotten Son, The Prince of peace. May we all experience His peace during this holiday season.





Monday, November 11, 2019

A Marriage Masterpiece



A marriage masterpiece is one that is not merely about the husband and wife, it is about glorifying the Lord Jesus Christ (Eph.5:21-33, especially vs.27, 31-32) Outside of your relationship with God, your relationship with your husband is the most important in life. So, your marriage is your life’s work, and, if you want it to be a masterpiece, something beautiful and Christ-honouring, then you have to realise that it will take a lot of hard work and a lot of time. People who have happiness and longevity in marriage don’t have them because they are lucky; it’s because they work hard and invest time.

Michaelangelo took 4 years to paint the Sistine Chapel. Millions of people every year visit the Vatican so they can admire this amazing artwork, and they marvel at the great talent that produced it. Yes, Michaelangelo had talent in spades, but look what he said about his work: “If people knew how hard I worked to get my mastery, it wouldn’t seem so wonderful at all.” Likewise, if you want to have a marriage masterpiece, you will need more than a lucky talent—you will need to put in a lot of time and effort in becoming a master of the art of being married.

Let’s imagine that creating a marriage masterpiece is like painting on a canvas. I did some research about how to paint with acrylics on canvas. By God’s grace I hope we can all learn to paint our marriage canvases the right way so that they become marriage masterpieces.



Step 1: Set up your supplies

You will need your canvas, easel, pallet, paints, brushes, etc. Your painting experience will be so much more relaxing and enjoyable if you prepare ahead of time.

When creating your marriage masterpiece, make sure you have prepared beforehand. Make sure you have the tools you will need (and don’t forget to use them!)—prayer, your pastor, your parents and other godly couples who have good marriages, from whom you can get godly counsel and advice. (Pro 11:14) Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety. Remember, you don’t have to wait until trouble comes to get advice. A wise person seeks counsel early, to avoid trouble.



Step 2: Choose the right brushes

Most classically-trained artists prefer to use a long-handled brush, because it enables them to paint standing up and from a distance, giving them a good perspective of their artwork.

When you’re painting your marriage masterpiece, remember often to stand back a bit and objectively evaluate your relationship—see what is good and what you need to work on. Make the necessary adjustments. Appreciate all of your husband’s strengths. His weaknesses... look at them from the perspective of eternity. (2 Co 4:18) While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal. And remember: love covers a multitude of sins (I Pet.4:8).



Step 3: Prep your canvas

An artist can choose either a pre-stretched, or a rolled canvas. Pre-stretched canvases are more convenient, but rolled canvases are generally of better quality.

Be prepared that if you want to have a marriage masterpiece of utmost quality that glorifies Christ, God is going to want to do His own stretching. No cheap pre-stretched canvases for Him! There are going to be a lot of trials, some that will require you to really stretch your faith. Don’t shy away from them, but rather endure them patiently, because these will make the canvas of your marriage masterpiece all the more precious and beautiful. (James 1:2-4) My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing. (Job 23:10) But he knoweth the way that I take: when he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold.



An artist will also usually prepare her canvas by applying a primer, which helps the paint go on smoothly and protects the fibres of the canvas as well as the brushes.

The primer or base coat for a marriage masterpiece is your relationship with your Saviour, Jesus Christ. Make sure that you are walking closely and in submission to Him and His Word, because if you can’t submit to Christ, the perfect man and leader, you will never be able to submit to an imperfect man and leader. (Col 2:6) As ye have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him:



Step 4: Test colours. Sometimes they dry darker

Remember when painting your own marriage masterpiece that things aren’t always what they seem. Choose to always believe the best about your husband, and even if he messes up, choose to believe he was well-intentioned. Remember that charity (love) believeth all things (I Cor.13:7).



Step 5: Apply background colour to set the mood

Classically-trained artists apply the background before they paint the subject.

In a Christ-honouring marriage, the couple must paint the first layer of colour on their canvas to set the mood for their entire marriage relationship. Make sure that on top of your primer (your relationship with Christ), your foundation colour is His Word and active involvement in the ministries of your church, serving the Lord together. Make the decision as husband and wife early in your marriage (but better late than never if you haven’t already done so!) that as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord (Josh.24:15).



Step 6: Create an underpainting

This is when the artist sketches or faintly paints on the canvas a basic outline of what she intends to paint.

Similarly, when painting your marriage masterpiece, you should have some idea of what you want your marriage to look like; you should have plans and goals that you want to aim for together—goals that you have prayed about and gotten from the Lord. (Pro 19:21) There are many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of the LORD, that shall stand.



Step 7: Add a medium

Many artists add a medium to their paint: gel, sand, glitter, beads, etc., in order to add texture, light or interest to their work.

When you’re painting your marriage masterpiece, don’t forget to „spice things up” a bit every now and then. Make sure you do fun things together, and when you’re not together, do things yourself that will keep your husband interested. Take care of your appearance (the Proverbs 31 woman dressed in tapestry), flirt with him (see the woman in Song of Solomon)—but not only that—be an interesting person to talk to. Contrary to what the world would have you believe, not all men are superficial, so don’t just be pretty...be interesting! Continually learn new things, read about a wide range of subjects so that you will keep his interest alive when you talk.





Step 8: Have a safe space for your canvas to dry

An acrylic painting is done in stages: first the background and then usually several layers of colour are added on top, giving the painting texture and depth. Each layer has to completely dry before the next layer is added, so you need a safe place to dry it, where it won’t be touched or damaged by others.

Your marriage masterpiece needs to be protected from the enemy, Satan, who wants to destry it so that it no longer glorifies Christ. Guard your marriage—set boundaries about how each of you interact with people of the opposite sex. Do your utmost to, by the grace of God, fulfil each other’s physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual needs. (1Co 7:3) Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.



Every artist, until she has finished her masterpiece, will keep it covered. Rarely will an artist reveal to others what she has painted before it is complete. But when it is done, it is hung in a gallery, and before a crowd of art lovers it is unveiled and put on exhibition.

One day, when you go to stand before the Lord at the judgment seat of Christ, your life’s work—your marriage—will be revealed to all. My prayer is that on that day, when the cover is taken off your painting and your life’s work is unveiled, what will be seen will be a masterpiece.



 Written by Suzy Crocket, missionary wife in Romania








Monday, June 13, 2016

A Disruptive Faith {Guest Post}


In Romans 12:3 the Bible tells us that “God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.” Faith is something that everybody has and uses every day. We, by faith, expect that the sun will rise each morning and set each evening. By faith, we expect that the bridge we are driving over will hold us up. By faith we submit to the doctor’s orders when we are sick. By faith, we go to school and learn, expecting that our efforts will result in a good living later in life. By faith we go to work every week, expecting a pay cheque at the end of the month. So we all use faith on a daily basis. This faith is a confidence or expectation of an immediate or future outcome, based either upon previous experience (the sun has never not risen, and so we have no reason to doubt that it will tomorrow), or upon our knowledge of the character and ability of the person in whom we are trusting (as in the case of the doctor, teacher or employer). Therefore, all that is needed for a person to have faith is at least one of two things: past experience, and/or knowledge of a trustworthy person.

When we come to now deal with faith in God and His Word, it is no different. We need to have either past experience of seeing how God or God’s Word has worked in our life or another’s (and here we see the importance of sharing our personal testimony of salvation with others), or we need to have personal knowledge of the trustworthy character of God and His abilities.

Of course, the best definition of faith as it pertains to religion is God’s own definition, found in Hebrews 11:1: “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” In other words, faith is the spiritual eye by which we can see beyond the visible, physical and temporal to the invisible, spiritual and eternal reality, which is God Himself. And so, by this definition we learn that faith is not the ultimate goal, it is the means by which we may attain to the ultimate goal, which is to know God firstly as our Saviour, and after that as our Father and Lord.

Now that we have seen what faith is and what its purpose is, we can come to the subject of its nature, which is really what this blog post is about. Faith—true faith in God and His Word—is disruptive. It is inconvenient. To many it is perturbing.

The first and most common disruption that we see nowadays is when an unsaved person becomes offended by the faith of a saved person. John 3:19-20 says: “And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.” Probably all of us who are saved have at least one friend or family member who has gotten angry at us or become agitated just because we mention Jesus, God or church. Maybe even you were like this yourself before you trusted Christ. Unbelievers are often offended by a Christian’s faith because it disrupts their lives—it confronts them with their own lack of faith and holiness. They can no longer do some of their sinful habits or think sinful thoughts or speak sinful words or worship their idols without having their conscience pricked. Their so-called inner peace has been disturbed. Now there is conflict. And sometimes this inner conflict can even be manifested outwardly through expressions of anger and resentment. This is what Jesus was talking about when He said in Matt.10:34-36: “Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.”

Some unbelievers aren’t necessarily offended by the Gospel or the faith of a believer, but they are perturbed by the many paradoxes in the Bible. They cannot understand living through dying, receiving through giving, exaltation through humility, strength through weakness, freedom through servitude, gaining through loss etc. Actually, these paradoxes are perturbing even for believers oftentimes.

The third kind of disruption in an unbeliever’s life can be seen in the example of Moses. Moses was born in Egypt, but he was not an Egyptian. He was an Hebrew, a descendant of Abraham. God had promised the land of Canaan to Abraham and his descendants, but Moses was not in Canaan. He was in Egypt. He was born at a time when for fear of the Hebrews out-populating the Egyptians, the Pharaoh had commanded that all male babies be killed, but when Moses was born, his mother hid him 3 months and then sent him down the Nile in a basket, to be found by Pharaoh’s daughter. He was raised from the time he was weaned in the courts of Pharaoh. He was treated and lived like a prince. He daily conversed with royalty, and knew no want. He was living a life of luxury in the most powerful, wealthy family in the known world. He knew nothing else. And he could have very easily kept on living in the lap of luxury and die an old, fat man. But for some reason unbeknownst to himself, when Moses was grown, “he went out unto his brethren, and looked on their burdens” (Ex.2:11). And he had a spiritual awakening that Hebrews 11:24-26 attributes to faith:  “By faith Moses, when he was come to years, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter; Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season; Esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt: for he had respect unto the recompence of the reward.” All of a sudden his life of luxury and ease was disrupted by the belief that he wasn’t where he should be and he wasn’t who he could be. He was a prince in Egypt, but he could be a child of God in the Land of Promise. He had the wealth of Egypt, but he could have the greater riches of the reproach of Christ and eternal rewards. Faith worked a spiritual awakening in Moses’ life, and faith still works that way today. Maybe faith is working like this in your heart today. Maybe you’re thinking, “I’m not where I should be, and I’m not who I could be.” Maybe you, like Moses, are thinking, “I could be a child of God on my way to heaven,” or maybe you’re thinking, “I have material things here, but I want the eternal riches that are in Christ.” Maybe your heart is saying today, “I know God from a distance, but I want to know Him personally as my Father.” If you are thinking like Moses did, that is God trying to do a work of faith in your heart. Harden not your heart, dear reader, “behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.” (II Cor.6:2)
The fourth way that faith disrupts the life and thoughts of an unsaved person can be seen in the example of the rich, young ruler in Matt. 19:16-22: “And, behold, one came and said unto him, Good Master, what good thing shall I do, that I may have eternal life?  And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments.  He saith unto him, Which? Jesus said, Thou shalt do no murder, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness,  Honour thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.  The young man saith unto him, All these things have I kept from my youth up: what lack I yet?  Jesus said unto him, If thou wilt be perfect, go and sell that thou hast, and give to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come and follow me. But when the young man heard that saying, he went away sorrowful: for he had great possessions.” The rich, young ruler was a religious man, a devout man, an orthodox Jew. He was not one to go to Temple only on the holy days. He went to synagogue every time the doors were open. He kept the 10 commandments and all the ceremonial laws as well. He told Jesus that he had kept all these laws from a child until now, and Jesus did not contradict him. This young ruler was confident that he had always done the right thing for the right reasons--  and yet-- look at what he asked Jesus: “What lack I yet?” God had given this man a measure of faith, and that faith brought him to the disturbing realisation that keeping the law and doing good works were not enough to secure eternal life. There was still something lacking. This measure of faith that he had, disquieted his heart and he had no peace or assurance about where he would spend eternity. Sadly, when Jesus told him how he could find that peace and eternal security, he “went away sorrowful,” because he chose to place his measure of faith in his good works and his riches, instead of in Christ. But that need not be true in your case, dear reader. If the measure of faith that God has given you is telling you today that despite your best efforts to live a good life, there is still something missing, you can choose to accept Jesus’ advice and leave your old ways behind and follow Him. You can find peace and eternal life in Christ today.

Faith does not only disrupt or disturb the lives of unbelievers, though. Faith is not only at work to bring people to salvation, but after that, also works in our sanctification, suffering, self-discipline, sacrifice and service. I John 5:4-5 talks about faith being that which overcomes the world: “For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith. Who is he that overcometh the world, but he that believeth that Jesus is the Son of God?” So, faith works in the life of a Christian, weaning her from the world and preparing her for heaven. That’s sanctification. How does it do that? As faith’s eye enables us to see more and more of the beauty of the invisible God’s holiness, all that is unholy and worldy gradually loses its lustre in our eyes. As our faith grows and matures, so does our love and appreciation for all things holy and heavenly. And as our love for the holy grows, so does our disdain for all that is unholy and worldly, until we will no longer tolerate ungodliness or worldliness in our own lives either, and we are sanctified. (This thought was borrowed from A.W. Tozer)

The second way that faith disrupts the Christian is by creating a sense of discomfort in this world, and causes us to look for another world. This is what happened in the life of Abraham when faith began to operate. Heb.11:8-10 says: “By faith Abraham, when he was called to go out into a place which he should after receive for an inheritance, obeyed; and he went out, not knowing whither he went. By faith he sojourned in the land of promise, as in a strange country, dwelling in tabernacles with Isaac and Jacob, the heirs with him of the same promise: For he looked for a city which hath foundations, whose builder and maker is God.” What does that look like in the life of a modern-day believer? It looks like a person who is always talking about the Lord and about heaven, and is always busily laying up treasures there (Matt.6:19-21).

Thirdly, faith is extremely disruptive to our lives and minds when it requires that we suffer or endure trials. Nobody enjoys these things, and so even the dreaded thought of suffering disquiets our heart. Sometimes we must suffer for our faith as did Daniel and his 3 friends, the prophets and the martyrs. Other times we must endure trials to grow our faith, like young David, when he was a shepherd boy. He had to fight off a lion and a bear in order to grow his faith enough to later face Goliath (I Sam.17:37).

Faith also makes itself inconvenient by requiring self-discipline and sacrifice. Heb.12:1-2 says: “Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.” The writer of Hebrews uses a strong metaphor here to describe the life of faith. He describes the born-again believer as a runner in a marathon, as shown by the word, “patience.” The Christian life is no sprint, it’s a marathon, and the Bible’s advice for believers who want to win the prize for finishing the race well, must “lay aside” every hindrance and the sin that holds them back. That little word, “and” is so interesting here, because it indicates that there are weights and there are sins. The weights can be, but are not necessarily sins. The life of faith is a call to sacrifice; to remove from our lives and our thoughts every thing-- whether it is sinful or not—that is hindering our spiritual growth or our ability to serve the Lord.  It could be a sin, a habit, a leisure activity that consumes too much of our time, a job that prevents us from going to church…it could even be a person, a friend that discourages you from being the Christian you should be. When we are called to lay aside things that give us pleasure or things that give us security, then faith becomes very disruptive to our minds and lives, doesn’t it? The flesh doesn’t want us to sacrifice our time, our money, our pleasures, in order to serve God, even when those sacrifices don’t really cause us any hardship. Much less do we want to sacrifice something, endure something, when it hurts us or makes things difficult. But that is the life that faith calls us to. It calls us to less sleep so that we can stay up all night in prayer. It calls us to less rest on the weekend so that we can hand out tracts on Saturday mornings. It calls us to dressing modestly and femininely, even though it may mean we are not fashionable. It calls us to consistent church attendance, even when we have a cold, or a headache, or our period, or we’re depressed. It calls us to a life of abstinence from alcohol, drugs, and pre- or extra-marital sexual relationships. It calls us to refuse that invitation to a family picnic on Sunday afternoon so that we can be in church on Sunday evening. It calls us to tithing, giving to missions and to the church building fund. It calls us sometimes (as it did in my family’s life), to leaving home and country to serve in another one. Sometimes it calls us to giving our children and grandchildren to God for the ministry. For some, the life of faith is a call to celibacy. The list could go on, but in short, the life of faith is a life of sacrifice, self-denial, and self-discipline. And we ought not to shy away from it, for there are many athletes who willingly sacrifice all these things for a reward that will perish with them. Shouldn’t we be willing to sacrifice for a reward that is eternal?

Finally, faith makes itself particularly disruptive and inconvenient in the area of service. Without a doubt, the best example of this in the Bible must be the Good Samaritan: “And Jesus answering said, A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among thieves, which stripped him of his raiment, and wounded him, and departed, leaving him half dead. And by chance there came down a certain priest that way: and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side.  And likewise a Levite, when he was at the place, came and looked on him, and passed by on the other side.  But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was: and when he saw him, he had compassion on him, And went to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring in oil and wine, and set him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn, and took care of him. And on the morrow when he departed, he took out two pence, and gave them to the host, and said unto him, Take care of him; and whatsoever thou spendest more, when I come again, I will repay thee.” Here we have a man who, through no fault of his own is robbed and beaten and left for dead on the road. “By chance,” (but was it really by chance?), a priest came that way. But this opportunity to minister to another’s needs came at an inconvenient time for him, and he kept walking. Then along came a Levite, but he had better things to do also. Then a certain Samaritan, who was on a journey (ie. He also was busy with other things) came and had compassion on the injured man. He took care of his wounds, and even spent his own money to ensure that the stranger was well cared for.

Two of the men in this story did not have an ounce of true faith, even though one was a priest!! Faith is disruptive and inconvenient at times. The opportunity for service or ministry perhaps won’t come at a convenient time, but a person of faith will allow God to interrupt her life, her day, her schedule, her plans, with opportunities to serve Him and others, just like the Good Samaritan did.

There are certainly many other ways that faith is disruptive. I have highlighted only a few in order that we may realise that real faith in God, in the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Bible, is by nature disruptive, perturbing and inconvenient. If your beliefs have not disrupted your life, inconvenienced you, or changed the way you think and live, then your faith is either dead or misplaced. Perhaps you are like Moses. You’ve had an awakening to your spiritual need, but you haven’t yet taken that step to becoming a child of God on her way to heaven. Or maybe you’re like the rich, young ruler. You know that there’s still something lacking, despite your best efforts to please God. If these two scenarios describe you today, dear reader, don’t go away from this blog sorrowful as the young ruler left Jesus’ presence. Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ as your Saviour, asking Him to cleanse you and make you a new creature, a child of God. Give Him your life right now.

Maybe you’re already saved, but God has been speaking to you about how faith needs to work in your sanctification, suffering, sacrifice and service. Perhaps your faith is small, weak, immature or not growing. May I encourage you to pray that God would increase your faith? Will you resolve to read and study and meditate on God’s Word, and to be at church whenever the doors are open? We usually use the verse “faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God” in the context of saving faith, and that’s not wrong. But we mustn’t forget that faith for Christian living after we’re saved comes the same way—by hearing the Word of God preached and taught. If you read, study, meditate and listen, God’s Word will grow your faith.

O, how we need faith, dear reader! For without it we cannot see or know the Immortal, Invisible, Only Wise God, neither can we please Him! (Heb.11:6)

Suzy Crocket and her family are missionaries in Romania.


Monday, April 4, 2016

DUTY - A Four Letter Dirty Word {Guest Post}

A soldier has a strong sense of duty. He has a duty to his country, officer and fellow soldiers. His duty is to defend the land, people, property and values of his country and countrymen. His duty demands that he stay and fight, no matter the difficulty or danger. The good soldier never deserts when the going gets tough. The soldier is obliged to submit to the command of his superiors, even if he is convinced that they are wrong. Nobody forced him to become a soldier, but the moment he became a soldier, he relinquished the right to do what he wants. Now he is duty-bound to a career of obedience. Most governments and citizens honour faithful soldiers, and rightly so. There is great honour to be found in fulfilling one’s duty. On the other hand, we all recognise that there is great shame in store for the soldier who runs from the battle and fails to do his duty.

Fathers and mothers have duties, too. Their duty, of course, is to care for, provide for, and love and teach their children. Nobody forced them to become parents, but the moment they did become parents, they also relinquished their rights to do whatever they want, whenever they want, with whomever they want. We honour and admire fathers and mothers who do their duty toward their children, and so we should. We also shame the mother or father that neglects or abuses their children. 

Civil governments and the leaders of those governments have duties. Employers and employees  have duties. Husbands and wives have duties. Teachers, policemen, judges, servants, preachers and even children have duties. Everybody has duties, and usually, we have a sense of pride (in the best sense of the word) when we have fulfilled those duties ourselves, and we show honour to others who have fulfilled theirs. Why is it then, that when it comes to serving the Lord (especially in the local church), “duty” is not embraced and honoured, but seen as something to be rejected and despised? So few Christians nowadays have a sense of their obligation to God and their fellow man, and as a result, many churches are in a crisis of Christian servants. There just isn’t anybody who is willing to serve. Pastors and their wives are over-worked and end up retiring early, because they don’t have the help they need in the ministry. It’s a big problem.

I’ve heard many church leaders and church members say something like this: “I can’t ask them to do that because I don’t want people to feel obliged to …………” (fill the blank with any act of Christian service from cleaning church toilets to soul-winning or leading a Bible study).  It always makes me sad to hear that. I honestly believe these well-meaning people are grieving the Lord with this kind of thinking. Why shouldn’t a Christian feel obliged to serve God? Why shouldn’t a blood-bought child of God feel a sense of duty or obligation to show his/her love and appreciation to God for saving them from their sin and eternal judgment? We ARE obliged to God! We ARE duty-bound! Why should we not feel so? Nobody forced us to give our lives to Christ, but the moment we did, we relinquished the right to do what we want, and exchanged it for the duty to do what He wants! Isn’t that the very essence of verses like I Cor. 6:19-20 and Rom. 12:1? 

 I Cor. 6:19-20: “What? Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.”

Rom. 12:1: “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.”

Even a lot of pastors these days have caved and refrained from calling on church members to do their duty, in favour of the pious-sounding call to “serve if you can do it from a heart motivated by love.” Although I can understand where they are coming from, I think it is an idea that ought to be avoided because it implies that those who serve from a strong sense of duty do not serve out of a heart of love. This is simply not true. The soldier, though he serves with a strong sense of duty, does he not love his country? Indeed, he enrolled in the army because he loves his country. And I would hazard to say that he probably loves his country more than the ones who stayed home from the battle. His love is of the highest kind…the sacrificial kind. The father or mother, though they care for their child out of a sense of duty, does that mean they do so without love in their heart? Of course not! Duty and love need not be mutually exclusive, but rather duty most often proceeds from love...or a sense of duty is the proof of love. The Bible demonstrates this fact most clearly in Jesus’ own words: “If ye love me, keep my commandments.” (John 14:15) And the Apostle John, known as the Apostle of love, said in his first epistle, "By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.” (I John 5:2-3) 

To be sure, it is entirely possible for someone to serve out of duty without love, but that doesn’t mean that everyone who serves with a sense of duty is without love. And while the highest and preferable motivation for any kind of service is surely love, that doesn’t mean that duty has no place of importance in the Christian life. The Apostle Paul had a great appreciation for people who did their duty and recognised the importance of a sense of duty in his own life and ministry. You see, while he preferred to be motivated by love, he also knew that there are times when love can be difficult to muster, and that is where a sense of duty can motivate us to do what we ought: “For though I preach the gospel, I have nothing to glory of: for necessity is laid upon me; yea, woe is unto me, if I preach not the gospel! For if I do this thing willingly, I have a reward: but if against my will, a dispensation of the gospel is committed unto me.” (I Cor. 9:16-17) In other words, if I preach the gospel out of love, I have a reward, but even if I don’t really want to do it, the gospel has been entrusted to me and I am obliged to preach it. I have a duty to preach it. When our love wanes, or when our flesh rises up and we just don’t feel like doing what we know we should, a sense of duty can motivate us to submit to God’s will and command. 

 I believe that anything that helps us to obey the commands of our Lord ought to be embraced and encouraged. I believe the Apostle Paul thought so too. Many, many times he exhorted pastors, believers and churches to fulfil their duties. As we just read above, he spoke of the duty to share the gospel (he did this on many occasions), but he also exhorted us to fulfil our duties in other areas, such as in caring for the poor (Gal. 6:6). He also tells us in Gal.6:9 to “not be weary in well-doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” He goes into great detail when describing the respective duties of wives, husbands, children, servants and masters. (Eph. 5 and 6). In I Tim. 5:18 Paul reminds believers of their duty to provide for the physical needs of their pastor. In II Tim.1:6 he tells Timothy (and us) to “stir up the gift of God, which is in thee,” showing our duty to use the spiritual gifts that God has given us. In Hebrews 10:22-25 he speaks of the Christian’s duty to lead a holy life, to hold fast the profession of our faith, to provoke one another to love and good works and to attend church.
In the beginning of I Pet. 5 the Apostle Peter reminds pastors of their duty to feed the flock and be good examples, and then goes on to remind the younger (whether in age or spiritual maturity) of their duty to submit to the guidance of the elders. The list could go on and on. I could show you verse after verse about our duty to give to missions, to pray for God’s servants and for our authorities, and to bear one another’s burdens. But I think you get the picture. 

The Christian is described as holding different jobs or positions in the Bible. A few of them I have listed below. Each one shows the different duties that are entailed in the Christian life:  

A Soldier (II Tim. 2:3-4) “Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ. No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier.” As soldiers in Christ’s employ, we have a duty to fight the spiritual battle against sin, to fight for souls, to endure hardness and to generally please our Captain.

An Ambassador (II Cor. 5:20) “Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ’s stead, be ye reconciled to God.” As ambassadors we have the duty of speaking to men on God’s behalf. We represent the King of the heavenly country of which we are citizens. We have a duty to speak and behave as the King desires.

A Servant  The apostles all called themselves servants of Christ as well as servants of their fellow man. Jesus also told parables about servants and masters that may well be applied to Christians, too. The position of a servant is probably the position that stands out most as being one of duty. The servant or slave is completely at the beckon call of his master. He has no right to exercise any will of his own. His is a life of complete submission, obedience and service.

A Disciple   This is a name that was given to anyone who was a follower of Christ, but it literally means “apprentice” or “learner.” The duty of a disciple then is to learn from Christ.

A Child (of God)  (John 1:12) “But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name.” In Eph. 6 we read of the duty of a child. It is to obey and honour his parents. As Christians and children of God, our duty is to obey and honour our Heavenly Father.

Because we are bought with the price of Christ’s precious blood and no longer belong to ourselves, we have a duty, that is, a legal and moral obligation, to obey God’s every command and to serve Him with our whole life. We ought to do these things out of love and appreciation for all that He has done for us, but even when we don’t love Him as He deserves to be loved, we should be compelled to obey and serve Him by a sense of duty because of our indebtedness toward Him. 

A sense of duty cannot be an admirable thing in a soldier, parent, employer, employee, public servant, teacher, preacher, ambassador, disciple or child and be a distasteful thing in a Christian. That is inconsistent. We must embrace the importance of duty in the life of a believer and its power to motivate us to do what is right at times when we don’t feel like it. We must be thankful for every opportunity the Lord gives us to do our duty and offer ourselves and our lives in His service. We must learn to see duty for the beautiful thing that it is and stop thinking of it at a four-letter dirty word.



Left to right: Blake, Hosanna, Eden, Elijah, Suzy, Mordecai, Chris, Ariella, Nathanael
Suzy and her family are missionaries to Romania





Monday, February 1, 2016

On Spiritual Growth {Guest Post}


Left to right: Blake, Hosanna, Eden, Elijah, Suzy, Mordecai, Chris, Ariella, Nathanael



Before I begin, I guess I should introduce myself. My name is Suzy Crocket. I am the eldest of 5 sisters. I have been a child of my earthly parents for nearly 38 years and a child of my Heavenly Father for 31. I am so thankful that the Lord saved me all those years ago and never left me once since that moment! He has been so faithful to me, even when I was not faithful to Him. He has given me so much…a loving husband, 7 beautiful children, a purpose and a calling…a truly wonderful life! It has been almost 9 years since we were sent out of our local church, Nepean Baptist Church in Sydney, Australia, to be church planters in Romania. Romania is where I feel most at home. God has given me a deep love for the Romanian people, and I hope I’ll spend all of my days here. I have never written a blog post before…so bear with me! Writing is one of my very favourite things to do, though, especially if I get to write about what the Lord has been teaching me! Speaking of teaching, that’s another one of my favourite things. I love studying the Bible and getting to share what I’ve learned with others, especially young ladies and women. I am addicted to journaling, and I think everyone should do it. I collect Christian quotes, so you’re bound to see some in my blog posts from time to time. I also enjoy cooking, reading, playing the flute, and just hanging out with my favourite people: my family. So that’s me in a nut shell! I hope and pray that my passion for studying God’s Word and sharing it with others will make up for my lack of talent, and that God will use my posts to be a blessing, encouragement and challenge to you!


On Spiritual Growth

January is the month when many of us make resolutions that we hope will either improve our situation or ourselves. I hope that at least one of your resolutions for 2016 is to grow spiritually. Unfortunately, many of the resolutions that we begin the year with are never realised, and that is mostly because we don’t have a plan of attack, or we lose our motivation. So here are some inspiring facts about spiritual growth that help me to stay motivated:

1. In the beginning God created man in His image. It wasn’t long before God’s image in man was marred by sin… but guess what! God is still working to create men and women in His image today! Eph. 2:10 says, “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.”

2. When God made the first man, all three Persons of the Godhead - Father, Son and Holy Spirit - were involved in that special creation, “And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness:” (Gen.1:26a). God is equally invested in your and my spiritual growth today. All three Persons of the Trinity are working in our sanctification or spiritual growth. (See Jude vs. 1; I Cor.1:2; I Pet.1:2). That’s how important our spiritual growth is to God!

3. Jesus Christ Himself shows personal interest in our spiritual growth. Listen to what He told the pastor of the church in Thyatira in Rev. 2:19, “I know thy works, and charity and service, and faith, and thy patience, and thy works; and the last to be more than the first.” Clearly Jesus observed their walk from start to finish, and we can be assured that He is definitely watching our growth with interest as well!

God’s investment and interest in our spiritual growth really ought to be enough to motivate us to be proactive in our own sanctification, but just in case you need more reasons:

4. Our spiritual growth can and should be observed by others. In I Tim. 4, the Apostle Paul exhorts Timothy to be an example, and to “give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine,” to use his spiritual gifts and to meditate on and obey the Scriptures. Why? That his “profiting (or progress) may appear to all.” (I Tim. 4:15). At least a part of the strength of our witness or testimony in the world around us lies in our spiritual growth. 

5. Our daily pursuit of Christlikeness, according to the Apostle Peter, ensures that we will have a fruitful, purposeful life, “And beside this, giving all diligence (that means effort on our part), add (that’s growth) to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness; And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity. For if these be in you, and abound, they make you that ye shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (II Pet. 1:5-8).

6. Immediately after these words of the Apostle Peter, he goes on to give us yet another motivation for growing, that being the kind of entrance we wish to have into Heaven, “For so an entrance shall be ministered unto you abundantly into the everlasting kingdom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.” (II Pet. 1:11). Do you ever daydream about what kind of welcoming you’ll get when you walk through those pearly gates? What kind of grand entrance do you wish for? Let that be your motivation to give due diligence to your spiritual growth.

7. As born-again believers, children of God, our eternal destiny is to be like Jesus, “Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. And every man that hath this hope in him purifieth himself, even as he is pure.”  (I John 3:2-3). Commentator Matthew Henry said, “It ought to be the business of every day to prepare for our final day.” 

8. If your success in life and your physical health were directly linked to the prosperity of your soul, would you do anything differently? Listen to how the Apostle John greeted Gaius in III John vs. 2, “Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.” I was personally very convicted by this thought last year when I read this verse and studied it more closely. That phrase, "as thy soul prospereth," is so interesting. 'Prosper' means to grow vigorously. It is true that the process of sanctification is a life-long process, but that doesn’t mean that there can’t be times in our Christian life of vigorous growth! I’m sure you’ve seen it in the lives of some new believers…I know I have. There’s no reason that we can’t have that kind of growth later in our Christian lives as well, as long as we’re willing to put in some effort!

There are certainly many more reasons that can motivate us to pursue Christlikeness, but I want to stop there so that I can share with you some steps that you can take to make sure that your resolution to grow spiritually this year won’t end up unrealised.

1. Take responsibility for your own spiritual growth. Believe it or not, I even know of people who left their very good, very doctrinally sound, very active church, because they were not growing spiritually! As if it was the pastor’s responsibility, or the youth leader’s responsibility, to make them grow! Wrong! The pastor and youth leaders certainly have their role to play, and it is an important one, but in the end, the buck stops with you! Even the best preacher in the world cannot make you grow if you aren’t putting the work in yourself.  Think of it like this. Your body needs to eat 3 times a day, 7 days a week. Skipping meals makes your body weak and tired, and skipping meals repeatedly can cause sickness and even death. Your soul needs to be fed with spiritual food. Every day. If the only “meals” your soul is getting are the ones it gets from church on Sunday, that may be enough to keep it alive, but it won’t be enough for it to grow! So take responsibility today for your own spiritual growth. Don’t depend on your pastor, youth leader, husband, or anyone else to feed you. Decide to feed yourself!

2. Realise that spiritual growth is about more than simply reading your Bible, praying and going to church. These are basic essentials, but it isn’t enough to read - you must obey. It isn’t enough to pray - you must believe. It isn’t enough to go to church - you must be involved, you must exercise your spiritual gifts, you must listen to the preaching and let God change you through it! 

3. Realise that sanctification has two parts to it according to Rom. 6:4-6: Mortification and vivification. 'Mortification' is when “our old man is crucified” with Christ, that is, when we deny our sinful nature of its fleshly desires. It is a necessary part of our pursuit of Christlikeness to remove from our lives those things that are either sinful, unhelpful or hindering spiritual growth in our lives. 'Vivification' is what this passage in Romans refers to as walking “in newness of life.” It is the daily decision to choose to walk in the ways of righteousness and truth. Without mortification and vivification, you can read and pray as much as you like, and you will see no change. 

4. Be disciplined. Remember that verse in II Peter? “Giving all diligence.” That means make a concerted effort! Make a list of those things that the Lord wants you to mortify, and make the decision to do it. Flee from temptation. Avoid those places or people that tempt you in these areas. Be disciplined in your Bible reading and study. Schedule the time in each day, and stick to it. Don’t make any exceptions. Using a Bible reading plan can be very helpful. Be disciplined in your prayer time as well. Use a list. Be committed to church attendance - for every service. Make exceptions only for very objective reasons, like if you’re REALLY sick. Minor ailments like headaches, menstrual cycles, etc. shouldn’t stop you from being at church. 

5. Journal your devotional times. Not only will it help you to remember and assimilate what you have read, but it will give you a yard-stick with which to measure your growth. At the end of each month or year, you can go back and read how much the Lord has taught you. Trust me, it is so encouraging! It is also a wonderful legacy for your children to inherit after you die - a way that they can keep you with them after you are gone and continue to learn from you. Journal how the Lord has answered your prayers, too. Re-reading these will grow your faith in an amazing way!

6. Especially in the beginning, it is very helpful to make yourself accountable to someone. You could choose your husband, a parent, your pastor’s wife, or a good friend - someone you know you will be able to be truthful with, and who will be faithful to rebuke you if you need it! Have them call you every day, or every week, and check up on how you are keeping up with your reading, prayer and church attendance, and even how you are going with mortifying the desires of the flesh. It may be uncomfortable at first, but the rewards are definitely worth it!

7. Finally, dedicate some time each day to Scripture memorisation. Remember, in Ps.119:11 the Bible says, “Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.”

May your soul and mine prosper in 2016!