Thursday, June 2, 2016

Are We Protecting Others From The Saviour?

I was blessed to be raised in a country where Christians have full freedoms and worship as they please.

I was raised in a place where most all know the name of Christ.

I grew up never being persecuted for my faith, in any way that could really be counted, in comparison to so many.

By Gods grace, I was born into a family who loved God and never pressured me to worship another god or follow along with evil traditions.

I was one of the many on American soil to attend a Christian school. Humanism, idolatry and evolution were never shoved down my throat during my schooling. Every aspect of education was presented from a biblical perspective. My school never expected me to skip church to come to school. My school didn't gather all the students on a regular basis to worship a false idol or to celebrate a gods birthday.

Even as a teenage I worked at a Christian daycare where for the most part Christ was lifted up:) lol. Anyone who has worked at a daycare I think can understand that things can get a little crazy at times on the parents, child or teachers part. I was never asked to work on a church day. I never had that fight.

As you can see my life was full of numerous blessings and I couldn't be more thankful, nor would I change a second of it. However as you move to an idolatrous country, where Christians are tested and tried everyday at every moment it can be quite surprising. Christianity is new. Period. Everything about it is new. And many times when Christianity comes to a place for the first time it is hard for them to fathom how God can possibly expect them to truly follow these commands he has written. Don't get me wrong they believe in God fully, they know his Word should be followed. But if they are not properly taught and encouraged they can slip into a sector of Christianity that believes faith is "mil Dina" ( the Nepali phrase for 'doesn't match' ") in their culture. Holiness is "mil Dina". Evangelism is "mil Dina". Having good friends is "mil Dina". It just isn't possible!

Now here is where I have run into a very crucial problem. If we as missionaries, or leaders of any people, do not trust that despite our blessed backgrounds that Christs mercy, grace, commandments and truth are true everywhere at all times WE CRIPPLE new Christians. Now that is a strong statement so let me explain some more of how God has continuously taught me this over and over and over again.

As a young person raised how I stated above, when I hear about people's struggles who are so strong and drastic compared to my own I am tempted to be overhwhelmed with pity and doubt. I pity them for being in a more difficult situation than I could have ever imagined at a young age or as an adult. And ashamadely doubt creeps in that God could deliver them and comfort them in this trial. Doubt that His Word will NEVER return void and his principles WILL ALWAYS yield good fruit.

But what God has taught me many times over is (1) To trust His Word. Not only His commands to be faithful, holy and true to one God, but to the tons of stories that reveal so many who did exactely that in extremely challenging situations.

I think of Daniel who stood in a very wicked and dangerous land. He stood for God over something as small as eating something he knew was wrong. Did God take care of him? YES! He was by his side every second, enabling and empowering him.

I think about Daniel years later, refusing to not pray to the one true God when he was commanded not to at the threat of death. Did God take care of him? YES! He cared for him in a way no other could have.

I think about Shadrach, Meschah and Abendego. While surrounding by thousands who bowed to a false god they stood strong and refused to bow. Did God see their faith? YES. Did he leave them in their time of need? NO

 

I think of God telling Paul sooo many times to preach His word, however controversial and enraging, in very un-friendly places. And yes, he suffered for the gospel sake. Yes he endured affliction. But should he have not done it? Should he have balked at the sacrifice? Should he have ignored the lost because of the persecution he must have known would come? So many were saved not just by his words but by his grace in suffering and obedience no matter the outside pressure.

Now the question I have to ask myself is: If Daniel had come to me and said what should I do when I go to this wicked land and they try to force me to obey Gods commands? Would I overcome with pity and doubt tell him, God understands, you just pray and do the best you can. Or would I trusting Gods word lead him to trust God, pray for grace and always obey His Word? Think of the blessings I would have stolen from him had I encouraged him to doubt Gods ability to care for him and bless obedience. Think of how I would have stunted his faith if I had encouraged him to not step out and SEE what the one True God can do!

The same is true when people come to you in a pioneer mission field and ask you?

Should I skip church when school asks me to? They say they will punish me.

Should I skip church when family says I should? I want to love and respect my family.

Should I stay faitfhful to church when I get a new job and I REALLY need money and they want him to work on church days.

Should I tithe? I'm really poor!

Should I be a part of religious ceremonies? I'm terrified of what they will do to me.

Should I continue to strive to be in the ministry in a country where I won't get paid, even though I feel called?

We have heard all these questions many times over. Are there times as children or wives we must submit to our God given authorities? Yes. But not if those requests cause us to sin! And honestly, I have found the majority of our tests are in areas we DO have the choice and choose not to make it. I'll be honest I haven't always responded with the confidence in Gods word I should have and big surprise in result they didn't either! But by Gods grace I'm striving to learn to boldly promote Gods power and ability to guide their paths, diffuse hard situation and give abundant grace to trials that must come. No one can make someone else do right but it's amazing how much leading with confidence in Gods Word makes a difference. The results in their lives is amazing! We are growing in faith together and we are both 100% happier when we don't live in doubt, that is from Satan, of Gods ability.

Sometimes as Christian coming from a blessed background and country who rarely sees persecution or pain inflicted due to religion we can doubt God expects obedience when suffering is involved. There must be a clause for "tough situations". But if we are reading the same Bible, we will find it isn't there. And if we remember although we may have never faced persecution or constant spiritual in your face battles, anyone who has grown in faith has had to CHOOSE to put Gods word to the test. Even in the blessed environment I was raised in I still was forced to choose God.

Do I allow myself to be friends with those kids I know don't want to follow the Lord (even in a Christian school)?

Do I live for myself and my comfort or do I serve others and give?

Do I trust Christ for salvation or do what's cool?

Do I share the gospel to those who may mock me or stay quiet?

Do I choose to work somewhere where they expect me to skip church or do I put God before money?

Do I respond to the flirtations of boys I know care nothing for the Lord or do I wait for Gods intended?

In every environment God will push us to follow him and build our faith and SEE his hand work and provide in our lives. I'm so glad my leaders and parents didn't rob me the opportunity of trusting God for myself. I pray that although I hate to see my children suffer, that I trust Gods Word more than my emotions and allow them to see The Almighty. And even though I haven't always acted on strong faith that I will continue to grow and trust that Gods word is true in every culture and the very struggle I long to protect my "spiritual children" from is generally the very thing that will build them and shine the brightest light to their fellow countrymen. In pioneer mission fields where the foreigner will probably never share the gospel with every person, city or house he can empower his converts with faith that in the future can impact the whole country and definitely many souls for Christ. On the other hand, missionaries can come to a dark land and fill their few converts hearts full of doubt and the gospels reach will be forever diminished.

 

 

Wednesday, June 1, 2016

VBS Program (Science Theme) "Laboratory of Fun" - Day One


Last week I shared with you the weekly "Laboratory of Fun"  Science theme for a one week long VBS program. This week I wanted to look specifically at Day one of that same week to share the schedule and day's activities to give you a better idea of how to fill the time for each day.

First we begin with Registration. The kids come up to the tables which is labeled for their ages. We split our kids up from ages five to eight (younger) and nine to ninety-nine (just for fun). When they approach the tables we ask for their names and confirm correct spelling. We use a simple form that I designed to keep track of their attendance. On the second and following days, we will use that chart to track their points for: attendance, verses memorized, papers completed and brought back the next day, friends invited, and participation. We do not hand out the point cards on the first day because they are not needed until the second day.

Registration

We gather all the children together for prayer. At that time I introduce the point system and theme for the week.



Once the points are explained, I announce that the older kids will be walking to the last set of benches to hear the Bible story from my husband while the younger group of children simply move closer together to hear the Bible story from me. We have a set time for the lesson so we try to keep the time the same in order for both groups to be ready to move on to the review game. Sometimes the older group goes longer so I stall the younger ones with songs and crazy stories or questions. :)


Dee teaching the smaller age group.

Don't  you love our flannel graph holder? :)




David teaching the older age group.
***The exception from the norm for this Science themed VBS was that instead of a review game right after the Bible stories, we did the science experiments first to allow the lesson in the experiments to also be used for review.


The children were looking forward to something new and exciting to watch when it was time to gather around for the experiment. 


This experiment can be described in detail here but these photos just have to be shared! Mrs. Pipetkina has a fear of balloons. So, this first experiment was a challenge for her to have to pop THREE balloons on purpose! We even offered to pop them for her since David understands her fear (hmm, his wife has the same "strong dislike" for balloons!) but she promised to be brave. She did great! Best of all were her faces as each balloon popped!


Sin separates us from God.







Can you help me put the balloon back together?



But, John 7:38 says, " He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water."








Both water and salvation are priceless and free. 
Both are available to everyone!


The balloon filled with water does not pop, but is protected, when it is exposed to open flame.

As is the person who puts his/her faith in Jesus Christ!


The experiment went well! The children understood and were amazed that the water balloon did not pop!

Next on the schedule, review game time!



While one of my helpers is playing the review game with the kids, several other helpers are setting up for snacks and Kool-Aid for our break time.
Once the review game is done, we pray for snack time and the children have about ten to fifteen minutes to eat. During their break, we would gather their point cards (that they wear around their necks) and put them away for the day in preparation for game time. The children are left with a stretchy colored wrist band to distinguish which team they are on so the cards are able to not be a safety hazard and get in the way while they try to play games.

I plan on saying more about point cards and games but I will share for you what games we played for this particular day.

The first game required the kids to hold each other at the elbow and without breaking the chain, get their bodies through the hula hoop and on down the line.


There are usually a few clowns in the group but this little guy just made us laugh with his funny faces while he concentrated on getting through that hula hoop!








The next game was a bit of a risky one on our part but we saw this game played at a good friend's son's birthday party and it was a lot of messy fun!

We did a little simpler version where the kids stand in line, each team having two players (one on each side of the table) blindfolded and ready to dig into a jello and whipped cream pie with their hands! Inside the pie were gummy worms, rice, and beans. The goal was for the children to find as many beans as they could, pull them out of the pie mess and onto the tablecloth in 30 seconds. The team with the most beans found wins!



I gave the instructions and my husband made sure to taste test the whipped cream just in case it was bad! ;)

The beautiful pies!

And their off!


Okay, so the risk was worth taking! They LOVED this game! Girls and boys alike!


We have a set time for games that determines how many we are able to play each day. If two games take up the entire time allotted for games then we stick with our time frame, although we try to have three games each day. 
At the end of the games we gather the kids all back together again to remind them to invite their friends. We also hand out their homework sheets for points as well, reminding them that the points they earn through the week will be like money to spend in the "store" on the last day. We then gather up their wrist bands, close in prayer, and they are free to go home. Some stay after to play soccer with some of the VBS workers. :)
Whew! 
Our program lasts two hours and it is a packed two hours with no time in between activities for them to wander off. This year the first few days felt like the two hours was more like 30 minutes! The time seemed to pass so quickly from start to finish! 


Thursday, May 26, 2016

3... 2... 1... Furlough!

Let it be known that I... Charity... have given in to the pressure.

Several of you have wanted to follow our adventures on our first furlough. I think it has to do with your insatiable appetite for reality TV shows. At first I thought... wow, that would be totally boring. But then I thought... you know, there are reality TV shows about everything from people losing weight to big families to people who have messy homes.

So, I guess following a missionary family around while they are on furlough would fit right in. Our house isn't overrun with clutter, but while traveling sometimes our van looks like a science experiment. We don't have a huge family, but when you try putting a family of five in a small hotel room our family certainly feels large. And losing weight? Let's just say furlough is a beast that few missionaries tackle successfully on the scale. But we are sure going to give it a try!

It won't exactly be a TV show, but you asked for it...
You got it!

Welcome to our crazy adventures!

3 kids...
2 parents...
1 minivan...

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3... 2... 1... Furlough!

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Tuesday evening we said our tear-filled goodbyes on the other side of the world in Asia. It is tradition there for everybody to visit you the day that you leave. We had everything packed early that morning and ready to go so that visitors would not disrupt our packing. We had food and snacks ready to go for everyone that walked through the doors.

And so many people came! One after another, they filed in to spend time with us and say their goodbyes.

That evening, Levi, our national assistant, told me, "Auntie, you have had many people come to say goodbye. That shows that you have made a difference in their lives. If you had not been a good missionary, they would not come." Yes, his words made me want to cry.

Another tradition... they all want to go with you to the airport. So as we headed out to the airport, we had a huge entourage leading the way. It made us feel special... but also made the tears flow even more. When we arrived at the airport, many more friends met us there. They helped us unload our luggage onto carts. Then came the final goodbyes.

I hugged all the girls and we wept. Then something happened I will never forget. In this culture, men and women have no physical contact in public. Even husbands and wives avoid touching each other. There are no handshakes between men and women. But for the first time since we arrived on the field, Levi said, "Auntie, I will hug you." There was no greater gift that young man could have given me. He truly has become like a son to us. After he hugged me, another dear friend and pastor reached out to shake my hand. Then another Bible college boy followed and reached out his hand to shake mine.

Even now, the tears swell within my eyes as I think about the love they were conveying by neglecting their culture to embrace showing affection as they do in my culture.

After we completed the long line of goodbyes and wiped away the tears one more time, we turned away and walked into the airport.




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You always wonder when reverse culture shock will begin.

Let me tell ya... It starts in the airports.

We landed in Doha for our first layover, but it was a short layover. We rushed quickly to our next gate. When we got there, we had just a few minutes to sit down and rest before the next flight. The problem was that there weren't five seats available together. We spotted an American sitting in the center of a long row of seats. He noticed our dilemma, and kindly moved over to give us five seats. I smiled and said thank you.

Then he asked, "Is that enough?"

I bobbled my head "yes."

He gave a puzzled look and then asked, "Um, so is that enough?"

Slightly confused by his repeated question, I repeated my head bobble "yes" and then said "yes" just to be sure he understood.

He looked at me funny, paused briefly, and then hesitatingly asked, "Are you sure?"

I assured him it was plenty and then we all sat down. I could tell he thought I was strange, but I assumed he was the one with the problem.

My husband handed me a bottle of water for me to chug down quickly before boarding the plane. As I took a huge gulp, the light came on in my already jet-lagged brain. It was only then that I realized the source of the miscommunication.

I had done the head bobble "yes" instead of the American head shake "yes." Americans shake their head up and down to say yes. I, however, had been bobbling my head side to side for the past three and a half years to say yes. The poor man had no idea if I was saying yes or no or maybe or "whatever, you mean old seat hog."

Somehow over the last few years, I have lost the ability to shake my head yes.

This is going to be tough...

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The Plane Landed...



A huge "thank you" to those who prayed for my sweet Granny. I have no doubt that your prayers are why my Granny is still here and why I was able to get the hug I so desperately wanted. We visited with her and sang and prayed for her. What a treasure! 


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Welcome back to America!

Trying on clothes at the store...
Me: The shirt is a little big.
Gabe, my 9 yo son: (Disappointed) Aww... Well... We can have it sewn down.
Me: Gabe, we are in America. I can walk over there and grab the right size.
Gabe: Really? Great!


Gabe: Do they really do free refills here?
Me: Yes, and you can even walk right over there and fill up your cup as many times as you want.
Gabe: (shocked) As much as I want?!!

Let the humbling begin...
Cashier: Do you have a rewards account with us?
Me: Um... I don't know.
Cashier: Would you like to sign up for an account?
Me: I don't think so, but I don't know. (All these decisions were stressing me out... I just want to pay for my stuff! By now, I am dripping with reverse culture shock sweat.)
Cashier: Well then your total is $....
Me: If I had an account already, what would it be listed under?
Cashier: Your phone number.
Me: I think my number was .....
Cashier: (Types in number) is your name Charity?
Me: (huge sigh of relief) That's me!
Cashier: (obviously suspicious of me and how weird I am acting) You have reward points and saved $5.
Me: Well, that's great!
Cashier: Your new total is $....
Me: (staring blankly at the card reader) Um... I have no idea how to use this.
Cashier: (slight pause... now convinced I am a nut job) Well, you stick your card in there and it tells you everything you need to do.
Me: That sounds easy enough. I hope I remember what my PIN number was!
I don't even want to know what was going through that cashier's mind...

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Just for laughs! I thought I left squatty potties in Asia! This is too bizarre!

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So I guess furlough isn't boring after all! Adventure seems to chase us around.




Wednesday, May 25, 2016

VBS Program (Science Theme) "Laboratory of Fun" - Daily Themes and Lessons

Now that we have discussed the planning stages of a Vacation Bible School program, I wanted to share what I believe was one of our favorite (if the kids could vote) VBS themes from 2013. I had been looking over different ways to incorporate science experiments into our VBS program as a way to really get the kids' attention and help them "see" the Bible lessons we are trying to teach them. Using these Bible stories along with the experiments from Mad About Jesus, was a great success! These experiments are a lot of work to gather and prepare for each day but they add so much to your program and the looks on the kids' faces definitely are only one reason they are more than worth it!



Theme for the Week: Laboratory of Fun
Goal: To use science experiments as visual reinforcement to the daily Bible lessons.

First you will need a Professor to do the daily experiments.

We asked a lady who attended our services if she would be our Professor and perform the science experiments each day. Please meet "Mrs.'Pipetkina' - (taken from the word 'pipette') 
It was a great experience for her to help out and gain this experience. She and I spent much time together praying for each lesson as we gathered together daily over several days to translate the experiments into Russian. Each day I stood by her to help in case she needed something and to hold up verses which we had printed out that went along with the experiment.



Day 1: Theme: Sin separates us from God but by accepting Him as our personal Savior we can receive forgiveness of our sins. 
Story: Samaritan woman at the well
Verses: John 4:1-30, 39-42
Science Experiment:  - Object Lesson 1: "One Sin"






Day 2: Theme: We are saved by faith, not our good works.
Story: Pharisee and the Publican 
Verses: Luke 18:9-14





Day 3: Theme: Through Christ we can do all things.
Story: Peter walks on the water
Verses: Matthew 14:22-33
Science Experiment: Object Lesson 12: "Leap of Faith"

 THIS was a lot of work but a HUGE hit with the kids!
Even some of the adults wanted to "walk on the water".


Day 4: Theme:He will strengthen us if we ask Him in prayer.
Story: David and Goliath
Verses: I Kings 17
Science Experiment: Object Lesson 2: "Even Little People Can Do Big Things"



NO PHOTOGRAPHER MEANS NO PICTURES FROM DAY FOUR. (Insert sad face)

But, I will take this time to show you an amazing photo booth another missionary painted for our special VBS week. Isn't it awesome!?




Day 5: Theme: Christ died for us because He loves us.

Story: Philip and the Ethiopian Eunuch - 

Verses: Acts 8:26-40


 This was the greatest object lesson of the week which made it perfect for the final day's experiment. A great illustration that had passersby stopping to watch to see what happened.




We pray this post is a help and encouragement to you as you prepare for upcomingVBS programs in your area of the world. We would love to hear from you if you use any of these ideas.

Please feel free to leave any questions in the comments!


Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Russian pancakes (blinchiky)


I had tried and tried to make "blinchiky" the way friends give me the recipe (just throwing the ingredients into a bowl and not really measuring any of them) but I could not get them to turn out. I ended up spending way too much time making a mess of batter in a skillet. Frustrating! I just knew it didn't take that long to make these thin little 'pancakes' and set out to find a recipe. I ended up trying this crepe recipe which turned out wonderfully! They were thin, easy to cook and flip in the skillet and tasted great. So, I use this recipe below to make 'blinchiky'. This recipe is way more fool-proof than guessing at the ingredients each time. 




1 1/2 cups milk
 2 tsp. vanilla extract
3 large egg yolks 
2 tsp. sugar 
1 TBSP salt 
5 TBSP butter, melted plus more for pan
1 1/2 cups sifted all-purpose flour 

1. Whisk together milk, vanilla, yolks, sugar, salt, and butter until well combined. Slowly whisk mixture into flour until smooth. Transfer to an airtight container; refrigerate at least two hours or overnight. 

2. Once the batter has set and you are ready to fry them, lightly coat a 6 -1/2 to 7-inch crepe pan or non-stick skillet with butter. Place over medium heat until just starting to smoke. Remove from heat; pour 2 to 3 tbsps of batter quickly into center of pan. quickly tilt pan and swirl in all directions so batter covers bottom in a thin layer. Return pan to heat; cook until center is dry, about 1 minute. Jerk pan sharply back and forth to loosen blinchik. 

3. Lift edge of blinchik; when underside is golden brown, flip with your fingers or two spatulas. Cook until top is brown in spots, about 30 seconds more. Slide onto plate. 

4. Coat pan with butter again and repeat with remaining batter. layering blinchiky on a plate. To keep warm, cover with an inverted oven-proof dish and place in a 200 degree C oven.

Russian people love to eat blinhiky with different fillings, including everything from 'varenya' (fruit jams) to chicken and mushrooms. So, choose your filling or just scarf them down by the handfuls like my teenage boys do! :) However you like to eat them, enjoy! I would love to hear what are some of your favorite filings!